Facebook and other social media channels have become the staple of every status in the world today. People seem to feel that they should "be somebody" because people are watching.
This is one of the reasons why Facebook user Nicole Joanne Meilat went viral when she unfriended her husband. On another post, she detailed why she did that and people are applauding her.
According to her, it came to a point that her relationship with her husband became too stressful. There was a time when she tags her husband in everything that she wants to tell him, but he doesn't read anything at all. But when it comes to nonsense posts from his friends, he will always have comments.
In a post, she said that she unfriended her husband so she won't have to feel hurt or stressed when he doesn't reply to her tags. It also became a way for them to be more closer to each other.
Even if they are together for 24/7, she said that they still make it a point to have longer conversations. Those that they want to tag to each other, they decide to talk about it at home, personally, instead of talking on social media.
They broke the stigma and the results were amazing.
“Sharing my reason why I unfriended my husband on facebook. Why? Sabi nga nila “What you don’t know won’t hurt you”. Sometimes men are insensitive, One time nung friend pa kami sa facebook I used to tag him sa almost everything na I think useful and informative but to tell you wala ni isa sa tinag ko ang binasa niya. Even sweet wall post or tagged family photos dedma siya. You know what hurt my feelings the most, kapag sa post ng iba or sa non-sense na bagay kahit hindi siya nakatag pustahan makikita mo may comment siya #Coolkid. Hahaha! Feeling niya nakakairita yung mga tinatag ko sakanya. (Which is true, ngayon ko lang narealize.)”
“That’s why I decided to unfriend him, kaloka inabot ata ng ilang linggo bago niya narealized d na kami friend! Since then unconsciously I stopped tagging him, I stopped seeing his post and lastly d ko nakikita mga comment niya hahahahaha. Ang gaan sa feelings! And narealize ko sobrang unhealthy ng Social Media sa magpartner kailangan scripted dahil alam mong may ibang nakakabasa. Yung tipong pag nag i love you ka, kailangan may mag i love you too. Ganon kastressful haha!”
“Ngayon na we are no longer connected sa social media. We started to have long conversation at home. Yung gsto niya i-tag sakin sinasabi na niya sakin personally. Kahit na nakatira kami in one roof at almost 24/7 magkasama meron paring mga bagay na hindi mo alam kaya mas nagkaron tuloy kami ng mga bagay na mapagkekwentuhan personally. At higit sa lahat WALA NA KAMING PAKIALAMANAN ng posts kagaya neto. To cut the story short, mas naging intimate yung relationship namin kasi parang may namimiss kami lagi sa isa’t isa kahit magkasama na kami sa iisang bubong.
P.s Just sharing how toxic I am nung friend ko siya tapos automatic tinatag mo siya dahil wala namang ibang applicable, tapos you will get dedma. You get served what you deserve! Still Not accepting.”
